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Sex Stimulants

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:17:51 +0000

What are they? They are different types of cream that help stimulate certain areas for sex. There are clitoral creams, head gels, warming lotions, etc.

In my opinion, these items are the most important accessory you can have in your nightstand drawer.

Clitoral creams include different products that stimulate the clitoris, such as L-Argnine, L-Ornathine or some kind of menthol. They come in different kinds of strengths. I have found that the creams are stronger than the gels personally.

Head Gels (or creams) are great for giving head or blow jobs. Men love the sensation and it gives us women a bit less work to do. If you get the mint flavor head cream or gel it can help with the gag reflex too.

Tightening gel is a different kind of stimulant, it aids in tightening the vaginal walls and making the woman feel the penis more as well as the man feel the woman as tighter more virgin-like.

Warming Lotions are awesome for giving head. They are the types that heat up when blown on. This is great for licking off as well as they are usually nicely flavored where as flavored lube can taste like glycerin. You just need to make sure you lick it all off nice and clean as the warming does end up with friction and can hurt if you have sex while using the lotion.

Sexual accessories are the best. They can add to your sexual experience without even adding toys. So its also a great way to get your partner used to adding new things to sex.

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C-Rings

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:14:09 +0000

C-Rings, also known as Cock Rings are another nice to have accessory for sexual relations. There are a few things these products can help with. A regular c-ring that looks like this —-> and is great for enhancing the mans orgasm as well as prolong it. As it restricts the blood flow (which we know is what makes the penis hard in the first place) and keeps it from releasing as quickly. Which can be great for the woman as well. She gets more time to have her orgasm.

This also works when a man has been drinking and is quick to the draw. Some men take longer when drinking, some take less. I use these for the morning sessions. My partner is definitely quick to the draw in the morning and this helps with that! The mornings are no longer just about him.

All C-rings are easy to apply – some people put them at the base of the penis and some stretch them and put them along the top of the penis shaft and underneath the testicals.

Where you put them depends on your partner and his sensitivity around the testical area. You can have them down there and it may ruin the mood if he can’t hack it!!!

Another fun thing about C Rings is many companies put them together with a vibrator on top and it becomes a vibrating machine for the clitoris. An example of that is like this CRing. Although there are MANY types.

Some have bigger more enhanced type vibrating stimulators and some have smaller, its all about personal choice. These are GREAT for sexual intercourse!!! I have many women thank me for recommending these. Men don’t feel “replaced” by a big toy but the woman still gets to get that extra stimulation.

And if you didn’t read my post about sex stimulators, there are creams, gels and lube that can really help awaken the nerve endings and get the blood flowing for orgasms to occur and that is always an awesome plan!

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Lubricants

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:06:16 +0000

The need for Lubricants is an extensive conversation. There are so many out there and what kinds should you use, what kinds shouldn’t you use and should you use them at all?

As mentioned in my article about the Clitoris, you should always use lubricant for the benefit of the clitoris, if no other. Some women feel pain if their clitoris is not lubricated, so definitely use it for that!

Some women need an additional lubricant (other than natural) due to growing older, their natural lubricants can start to deplete. And then like it or not, if you have been with a partner for a certain amount of time (different for all people), you may lose that natural wetness that comes from wanting to be with that partner.

But what kind? A natural silicone lubricant is awesome for sexual enjoyment. It needs less application and less reapplication. You can find some lubricants with a natural stimulant added that will allow the clitoris to tingle and awaken the nerve endings. Some women enjoy this, some do not. Finding out what your partner needs and desires takes communication.

Silicone lubricant is hard on toys however, so having a water based lubricant for your toys is necessary. Using a toy without lubricant can cause yeast infection, so this is not desirable and a lubricant should be bought for toys at the very least.

Then there is lube for anal sex which has a little desensitizer in it to help the anus relax for sex. Anal sex absolutely needs a lubricant. Don’t even go near that thing without it!

So practically speaking, I suggest lubricant to everyone who asks if they should use it. The kind you get can be trial and error. Some are sticky, some need applied more than others. Getting with a consultant is a great way to ease this process and get their opinion/preference. They will try different types or get customer feedback on what they carry. This is their job, so let them do it and get ready for some awesome lubricated sex! Fill out our contact page to have a consultant contact you.