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Toys and the Single Woman

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:18:55 +0000

You know the saying “Don’t use it and you lose it”? This goes for single women especially! If you are not sexually active, you should get some multiple use toys to aid in your time free of a relationship.

Masturbation whether with a toy or with your hand is healthy; releases tension and stress, not to mention it helps you learn more about your body and what it takes for your own orgasm and sexual pleasure.

“Some experts suggest that masturbation can actually improve sexual health and relationships. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is erotically pleasing to you and can share this with your partner. Some partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy.”

The best toys in my opinion for personal use are the multiple use vibrators. It stimulates the inside of the vagina, namely the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. There are multiple use vibrators specifically geared for the g-spot orgasm, but just about any toy that has the moving shaft (whether it be beads or rotation) will hit the g-spot too.

Another great toy for the single and married woman is the vibrating bullet. It is also a great starter toy as it doesn’t look like a typical vibrator, isn’t falic and doesn’t intimidate.

Get together with your adult sex toy consultant to book your party today and get you and your other single girlfriends hooked up! Works for married women too!

Sources:

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/masturbation-guide

Sex Stimulants

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:17:51 +0000

What are they? They are different types of cream that help stimulate certain areas for sex. There are clitoral creams, head gels, warming lotions, etc.

In my opinion, these items are the most important accessory you can have in your nightstand drawer.

Clitoral creams include different products that stimulate the clitoris, such as L-Argnine, L-Ornathine or some kind of menthol. They come in different kinds of strengths. I have found that the creams are stronger than the gels personally.

Head Gels (or creams) are great for giving head or blow jobs. Men love the sensation and it gives us women a bit less work to do. If you get the mint flavor head cream or gel it can help with the gag reflex too.

Tightening gel is a different kind of stimulant, it aids in tightening the vaginal walls and making the woman feel the penis more as well as the man feel the woman as tighter more virgin-like.

Warming Lotions are awesome for giving head. They are the types that heat up when blown on. This is great for licking off as well as they are usually nicely flavored where as flavored lube can taste like glycerin. You just need to make sure you lick it all off nice and clean as the warming does end up with friction and can hurt if you have sex while using the lotion.

Sexual accessories are the best. They can add to your sexual experience without even adding toys. So its also a great way to get your partner used to adding new things to sex.

Book your party today to see more about sexual accessories to enhance your sex life.

Aphrodisiacs

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:12:27 +0000

An aphrodisiac is a substance believed to help aid in sexual desire. The name came from the Greek goddess of sensuality and love- Aphrodite.

Different foods and whatnot are said to be able aid in sexual desire. Chocolate is supposed to be an aphrodisiac. It does have seratonin that helps with the pleasure center of the brain…so it does do something for you. Certain foods are aphrodisiacs because of the way they look. Such as bananas look like a penis, oysters look like a vagina.

Some foods are just plain healthy for you and help with the sex department that way- such as wheat germ. It has a large source of Vitamin E. Vitamin E is a powerful vitamin for sex. It is also an anti-aging ancient as it has many anti-oxidants and is great for hormone balance. Which is also needed for women to have a healthy sex life.

Amongst the aphrodisiacs of the world are herbs. While the FDA do not condone the use of herbs, some have been known to work. A few of the more known herbs are – Ginseng, Horny Goat Weed, Fo-Ti, Damiana, and more. I’ve only personally tried a few of them and didn’t feel much different, but maybe it wasn’t the kind I maybe needed.

Visual aphrodisiacs have been something that has helped many people. Porn is no longer considered dirty and wrong. It can be used to enhance the sexual experience between partners. There are erotica movies that do not show the actual penatration and can be watched by the individuals that do not want to watch full porn.

If you are having challenged sexual experiences, some of these ideas may help you. The point is to not give up. Because a healthy sex life is what keeps you and your partner together.

If you are interested in finding out more about tools that can liven your sex life up- Book a party today!

Lubricants

arousep — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:06:16 +0000

The need for Lubricants is an extensive conversation. There are so many out there and what kinds should you use, what kinds shouldn’t you use and should you use them at all?

As mentioned in my article about the Clitoris, you should always use lubricant for the benefit of the clitoris, if no other. Some women feel pain if their clitoris is not lubricated, so definitely use it for that!

Some women need an additional lubricant (other than natural) due to growing older, their natural lubricants can start to deplete. And then like it or not, if you have been with a partner for a certain amount of time (different for all people), you may lose that natural wetness that comes from wanting to be with that partner.

But what kind? A natural silicone lubricant is awesome for sexual enjoyment. It needs less application and less reapplication. You can find some lubricants with a natural stimulant added that will allow the clitoris to tingle and awaken the nerve endings. Some women enjoy this, some do not. Finding out what your partner needs and desires takes communication.

Silicone lubricant is hard on toys however, so having a water based lubricant for your toys is necessary. Using a toy without lubricant can cause yeast infection, so this is not desirable and a lubricant should be bought for toys at the very least.

Then there is lube for anal sex which has a little desensitizer in it to help the anus relax for sex. Anal sex absolutely needs a lubricant. Don’t even go near that thing without it!

So practically speaking, I suggest lubricant to everyone who asks if they should use it. The kind you get can be trial and error. Some are sticky, some need applied more than others. Getting with a consultant is a great way to ease this process and get their opinion/preference. They will try different types or get customer feedback on what they carry. This is their job, so let them do it and get ready for some awesome lubricated sex! Fill out our contact page to have a consultant contact you.